Why do guys act like they don’t care? These are the main reasons for your "Cold" Behavior!

Men have a way of letting a woman know their feelings through their body language and behavior. If your guy has been acting like he isn’t the least bit interested in you, it could be that he really is! Take a look at these tips. They will help you better understand this cold behavior of the boys!

They don’t want to seem too in love

Guys may feel that if they are too open about their feelings towards a woman, they come off as guys who can’t control their feelings and look silly. They have an image to protect and they won’t do anything to spoil it!

He believes that wearing his heart on his sleeve would make him look weak.

The fear of appearing weak and vulnerable is very real to most alpha males, and if your guy has a reputation to uphold, he’ll hate to let his feelings show openly. He will go out of his way to pretend otherwise just to not appear too open and easily “readable”.

They want the girls to chase them.

While many guys love a good chase, there are others who just as much think it’s great to have a girl do the chasing. She makes him feel sexy, attractive, and “in demand.” This is why he pretends to be cold and aloof so that she thinks he is even more attractive and unapproachable and therefore worth pursuing.

They hate admitting they have feelings.

Men have this stupid but very real idea that they’re not supposed to cry, be musky and romantic in front of others and basically admit that they have feelings and emotions. Only women are “allowed” to openly cry and bare their souls to everyone. Therefore, there are many who will act like they don’t care when in fact they do!

They think it will make her chase him harder.

Women aren’t the only people who believe in reverse psychology! Just as a woman can pretend that she doesn’t care so that he pursues her even more, men also pretend that they are not interested in her just to see her pursue him as if he is the only eligible man around her.

They want to be sure of their feelings first.

Many men are afraid to show and admit their feelings too soon. If he isn’t sure of your feelings for him, and is afraid of making a fool of himself by professing his love to him, he will wait until he is really sure that you love him before committing himself and showing the world that he loves you.

They want to portray a strong and macho image.

What is it about men that makes them want to pretend they don’t care at all? Maybe it’s an instinct to appear strong, independent and macho! They feel that if they seem like the type of man who is not so easily hooked up, it will make them more irresistible to women.