My Fiance broke up with me
Legal LawIt seems that all relationships start the same. Hot, heavy and passionate. There is love, acceptance and incredible feelings that you have found your true love. Or at least it seems. So it happens. For no reason, your fiancé breaks up with you, destroying any dreams and hopes you had for your relationship and your future together. What’s even worse is that for some, this might not be the first time your fiancé has broken up with you and you are going through feelings of massive rejection. I know. Believe me. I’ve been there and it sucks.
Whether this is the first time your fiancé has broken up with you or the second, it’s important to understand the emotions you’re going through. And, without a doubt, depending on the time you take, you are at least in one of these stages. And, if you want to get your fiancé back and save your relationship, you need to understand these emotions, work through them, and then take action to win your ex-fiancé back into your arms.
It may have been a day, a week, a month or more and you are probably going through stages of grief due to the recent loss of your fiancé. Complaint? Yes, grievance. The complaint is not just when you lose someone who has passed away, it also applies to any type of significant loss, and losing your ex-fiancé is a significant loss. This loss needs to be addressed in order to fully move on with your life or to start taking steps to look at what went wrong and get your ex back.
Complaint stages
The first stage of grievance is probably going through a state of shock, denial, or just numbness to the situation. At this stage, you are not living in reality and everything seems unreal to you. You feel that you cannot understand what just happened (shock). You believe that the events of the breakup did not happen at all and you continue to try to communicate with your ex (denial). Or you understand what is happening and simply lose touch with life itself (numbness).
The second stage of the grievance, you may experience fear, anger, and most likely some depression. It is important that you understand that in the face of any major loss it is quite normal to feel some of these emotions, so let yourself feel. It’s healthy to do it. So just do it. And if you feel like it’s a bit overwhelming, get support from family and friends, maybe even some professional help if you think you need it.
The third stage of grievance is acceptance. At this point, you understand that acceptance has nothing to do with whether or not you like this situation. You are just accepting what is. Even though you have accepted the breakup, it does not mean that you cannot get your lover back. But, if you got to this stage, it just means that it’s been more time since your fiancé broke up with you, but you can still get your ex back by following some simple ground rules. They are:
Basic rule #1: Do not resist the breakup
What are you talking about Willis? Yes I know. If her fiancé is hell-bent on breaking up, don’t resist breaking up. She respects her wishes. Many people have tried to stop a breakup by whining, crying, begging, making empty promises, and denying themselves. don’t do it. You may not like it, but for your fiancé, they have a good reason to break up. It may not be rational, but let this play out. Sometimes, alone, they realize their mistake and come back.
Basic Rule #2: Cease and Desist All Communications
What what? Yes. I know I just told you not to resist the breakup, and now I’m telling you to temporarily end all communication with your ex-fiancé. So you can deal with the most important person in your life, that is, YOU. He must end all communications with his ex-fiancé. Don’t try to fix the situation. You are going to have to deal, probably painfully, with this temporary end to communications. There is a greater good to this. Keep reading.
Basic Rule #3: Give your ex a ton of space
I know these ground rules may seem totally contrary to what you are trying to achieve, which is to get your ex back, but they are essential to achieving that goal. You might be wondering why you should give your ex a ton of space. Well, it’s so they can get some perspective on the stressful situation. And you need it too. Use this space to reconnect with yourself. Go out and enjoy your life like your ex is never coming back. Get center. be healed