how to get inside his head

18-08-2022

Most men value women as goddesses. Goddess with unimaginable appeal, courage and beauty. However, the problem is that many women do not realize this. They are not aware of their self-esteem. One of the most fundamental things is to accept yourself first: you are the way you are. Don’t try to be someone else. To realize the full potential of your self-esteem, you need to change your thinking and beliefs. You need a mental image before you realize something. One needs to bring gratitude to what someone already has, and to do that, one must first ask one question: What am I grateful for? Do you see the idea? The point is that the more positive thoughts you bring to your mind, the more your mind will work on positive explanations and help you activate positive factors.

Here are some important facts to consider when talking to a man.

  1. When you lead an argument, men usually think worst case. Yes, that’s the way men are wired. Perhaps it is the genes that prepare them for the worst in survival instincts. I don’t know, but it is so. If you want to talk about something with him next time, don’t jump on the scene and declare that you want to talk about something. This is a sure way to send him into a panic, and he prepares himself mentally for the worst case scenario. Which is not what you want… is it?
  2. Avoid being too emotional. Once again, most men are wired to be practical and results-oriented. If you bring a little more practicality in front of them, you just lose all attention. Words like future, late, needs, and worry will send you into a queue of boredom, since that’s what’s on your mind most of the time. Try having a conversation as a friend and watch him turn on. If you can listen, he will love you!
  3. Eye contact is almost an alarm bell and it goes ringing if you do that with it. This ritual is reserved for people like your mother or the divorce attorney (don’t try this at home). He’ll feel more comfortable talking to you when you’re not making eye contact. How about when he is hugging you lovingly from behind or when you are reading something or maybe he is doing it? In any case, when he’s in a warm hug, he’s less protective of himself and thinks only of you.
  4. Don’t ask him what he’s thinking. Yes, he doesn’t have a mind like yours that keeps thinking anything all the time. Whether you like it or not, many men may not be thinking about anything and just love to look at nothing (surprising but true). You can completely turn this around by asking him what he’s doing or just watching him do something and strike up a conversation. In general, men are all about friendly conversation, and the more you do it with them, the more access you have to their mind.
  5. Don’t ask him where he was or where he is going. Yeah yeah I know you’re like, why not? And believe me, this is the biggest turnoff for men. Asking where a man is headed is almost like questioning him about his commitment, wow! The more you do that, the more he tends to be openly secretive and evasive. You see that you are encroaching on his independence that was granted to him by the gods!

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