5 Simple Flirting Tips You Won’t See Coming
Legal LawI don’t know about you, but I don’t think flirting has to be hard at all. I don’t think it’s meant to be a challenge. On the contrary, I think flirting is meant to be FUN! And it CAN be fun for you, too, especially if you try these 5 easy tips for flirting on your next date.
Flirting Tip #1 – Say “I hate you.”
Most men, even the best ones, go on first dates expecting a woman to be polite, pleasant, and cordial. But when you suddenly tell her “I hate you” with a smile, especially after she says something selfish or after she makes fun of you, she’ll drive him crazy, in a good way of course!
When you say “I hate you” with a smile, it will leave him wondering, “Wow, did he really mean that or is he making fun of me?” It puts you in control, makes you feel relaxed, and creates an instant family bond with him, all at the same time.
Flirting Tip #2: Wink.
It’s a sad fact in the dating game, but hardly anyone wins anymore. There was a time when winning was a pleasurable gesture that instantly conveyed a flirty, naughty, and fun message, even without saying a word. But guess that? That’s what makes it so unexpected when you wear it today!
When you beat a guy today he will NOT see it coming! But the message is there: you’re joking, you’re flirting, and you’re in control. And if he’s man enough, he’s gonna play your game!
Flirting Tip #3: Mirror her moves.
Try this on your next date: When he rests his head on his hand, do the same. If he crosses his legs, cross yours too. And if he takes a sip of coffee, he also takes a sip of your own drink. The idea is to mimic his movements a few seconds AFTER he does them.
Now why am I asking you to mirror their movements?
Just this little scientific fact. Studies have shown that men react more favorably to women who move in the same way as them. And guess what? It’s all unconscious: he won’t even realize you’re mimicking his moves! But he’ll subconsciously pick it up anyway, and you’ll end up liking him more.
Flirting tip #4 – Implied sex.
Let’s face it, even during the first date, he’s going to entertain the idea of having sex with you in the future. He will wonder if there will be something “playful” with you in the future. That’s why when you hint at the idea of sex, even innocently, it will make him MORE interested in you!
However, you shouldn’t talk directly about sex, as that will only give him the wrong idea about you. Instead, be creative! For example, if you’re walking through the mall and passing the lingerie section, point to a sexy item and say “That’s CUTE!” Trust me, those two words will put all kinds of ideas in your mind!
Flirting Tip #5: Tell him to “do his worst!”
It’s best to save this last bit of advice for the last part of any date, when it asks for your contact information. Now usually women are either hesitant to give their numbers (they have no feelings for him) or give their numbers too enthusiastically (they are needy and desperate). Either way, it’s not a good impression for him!
Instead, write down your contact information, hand it over to him, and tell him to “do your worst!” She instantly tells him that you feel comfortable with him, and that you are one of the few women that is actually WORTH being with.
Now go out there and FLIR!